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This blog is all about David Henderson. Things that he does and things happen to him, things that he thinks about and things that think about him.

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+ 1 - 1 | § Can Shopping Be Bad?

[Josh is joining this blog because, like me, he enjoys omphaloskepsis. Also, apparently nobody reads his LiveJournal, so he's seeking a wider audience here. Here he begins, though I'll actually be typing while he dictates...]

David and I purchased nineteen movies today at Best Buy. Fourteen of them don't really count as 14, since they were in a boxed set, so they really count as one. I also bought an autograph, but more about that later.

The individual films are listed first in chronological order by year of release, and the 14 Alfred Hitchcock films are listed together at the end:

I bought some other movies, but I don't remember what they are right now, and I don't feel like going and getting them, but I do have two more coming in the mail, along with three books. The two movies are:

I purchased a Pat Nixon autograph today. It's cool.

-Josh

+ 2 - 0 | § Getting caught up again...

The past couple of weeks have been pretty busy. Here are a few items of note:

* My financial crunch may soon be over. I'm re-financing the house and consolidating some other debts (including some of the home improvement credit expenses from last summer/fall and some of the medical expenses I incurred from the sleep study and related tests); I was pleased to discover that property values have gone up in my area significantly, so I'm also able to take out some additional cash as a buffer in the event of future needs, in addition to getting my monthly payments down noticeably.

* [[Wikipedia]] is addictive. Too addictive.

* Nancy and Grace are doing fine after getting their sutures removed. Nancy has been getting a little more adventurous in exploring the house, instead of just staying close to the front bedroom.

* I've recently seen "Brokeback Mountain" and "Rent". The former was a pretty good movie, in my opinion, but not so good that I thought it deserved the Oscar over other movies, such as "The Chronicles of Narnia" (which didn't even get nominated). The latter was quite good; as a musical, I was impressed with the varying styles of music and dance used. (Oops, is my modifier dangling?) About the only thing I'd heard about "Rent" before seeing it was that it was about a bunch of people who try to get out of paying their rent, which didn't sound very interesting... but which also turned out to not quite be accurate, either.

* Dad came over a couple days ago to hook up some high-definition cables from the cable box to the TV so we can watch HD shows on the HD channels without black bars on all four sides of the screen. He also improved the wireless network so I have better coverage in all rooms of the house.

* Bradley is on Spring Break this week, so there was no Psi Phi meeting Wednesday.

* I wore an orange shirt to work on Friday. I learned on the TrekBBS that green is more specifically a Catholic Irish color; since I'm neither Catholic nor Irish, I decided to wear the color that at least half-represents me, orange, the Protestant Irish color. Also, all of my green shirts were (and still are) dirty.

* Our waitress at Lone Star Friday night was very impressive. She accommodated special requests with no problems, and was attentive to our needs (such as getting refills and cleaning up used plates).

* Why is it that Number Place and Cross Sums, two puzzles that were invented in the U.S. decades ago (and that I've been solving for at least the past ten years) have suddenly become popular in the last year or so? I guess a lot of Americans are just impressed with things that they think are Japanese; by slapping the new names "Sudoku" and "Kakuro" on them (respectively), they've become incredibly popular. I wonder if this works with things other than logic puzzles... maybe I can come up with some new Japanese names for uncommon household items and start raking in the dough marketing them! :-)

davidh

+ 2 - 0 | § Jerald M. Rider, 1942-2006

[Update 3/9, below]

My step-father Jerry passed away this morning, about a half-hour ago, and went to be with the Lord.

Yesterday was a difficult day for me. For several hours, Jerry was unresponsive; he couldn't even be woken up to take his medicine. But at some point in the early afternoon (I think it was), he woke up, and was awake off and on for several hours. He knew he didn't have much time left, and there were several conversations about apologies and forgiveness.

One comment in particular that affected me was how he was sorry that there had been so much wasted time between us. When my mother first started dating him, I really didn't like him, for a number of reasons. He was the reason I ran away from home and went to live with my dad full-time. I did not attend Jerry and my mom's wedding, about 15 years ago. When I would visit my mom, I might say "Hi" to him, but we wouldn't really talk.

That changed about five or six years ago. I had been visiting mom, working with her on some famly business, when Jerry collapsed, seemingly from a heart attack[1]. I sat with him and held his hand while mom called 911, trying to comfort him. For the first time, I saw beyond the straw-man I'd constructed out of all of those reasons I had to not like him; I saw him as a real, flesh-and-blood human being. After that, our relationship changed to at least a casual friendship. For example, when I'd come over, I'd greet Jerry with a smile, and mean it. And we'd chit-chat about stuff while I was waiting for mom.

These past few weeks, I started out helping with Jerry for my mom's sake, but as I've taken care of him, I've been surprised at how much my compassion and love for him has grown. Especially last weekend and this weekend, when we had some good talks.

I miss you, Jerry. My life as been touched by getting to know you these past few weeks. I wish we'd've had more time... or used the time we had more wisely. And I look forward to seeing you in Heaven someday.

Side note: The words to the song "We Live" are feeling very significant to me right now.

davidh

[1] - It turned out that it had not been a heart attack, but something relatively minor, though I forget what specifically.

[Update 3/9: The Pantagraph has posted Jerry's obituary.]